Agreeing to Disagree- Lovingly
Jun 18, 2023 ·
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Agreeing to Disagree-Loving, Have you ever been in a situation where you disagreed about something and it just escalated into a huge argument? Yeah,I know I have been there but...
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Agreeing to Disagree-Loving,
Have you ever been in a situation where you disagreed about something and it just escalated into a huge argument? Yeah,I know I have been there but wouldn’t be nice if we could agree to disagree in a loving way. I know it’s hard to do when you're trying to get your point across, or when shouting at each other and no one is being heard. Sometimes it’s just darn out right difficult. Nobody Is agreeing to disagree in a loving way. It breaks my heart to see relationships have ended over it, and even loss of jobs because of it. If something doesn’t go as we want it to, we get mad and will do almost anything to get our outcome or even to hurt another person.
May even punish someone or persons close to them to get a point across. But where does that lead us? It doesn’t resolve the problem, it creates more. It would be nice if as much as we say we are adults. We should act like it right?Being an adult doesn’t mean you get your way all the time. Sometimes you just have to understand that, That's not how the world works. You have 60,70, years old who agree to disagree but do it in such a harsh way. It doesn’t have to be that way you can agree to disagree loving.
Well you're the expert, tell me how? No I am no expert but I can say as I’ve grown away from the relationships that I would scream and shout in. I had to sit aside and think why and how that relationship ended. Most of the time it was because I will admit I was too busy shouting and trying to be heard, and get my point across that I didn’t listen to the other person. So, what happened to the other person and I?We ended our relationship. It was my fault as well as the other person's fault as well but the relationship ended.
I figured if only we agreed to disagree loving, So what could I have done differently that I can do now in communicating.
Sitting down and having a calm and productive conversation.To Simply learn a little more about the problems and the depth of why you both hold such different viewpoints.Sometimes we can reduce the tension and set the tone when approaching the conversation. For instance communicating in a caring and respectful way. I know at first you may feel uncomfortabl because it’s never been a method used when communicating. But it would be awesome if we could learn to dialogue in a way that would last us a lifetime. So that when a disagreement happened. There still would be a mutual respect between us when doing so. Now that’s an adult for you!That means respecting each other's beliefs, their choices, and what they see fit within their lives. My habit is I am always trying to see that everyone is happy and live like a hermit. But in reality we are all different with different similarities. You won’t see things the way I would or believe how I believe. It would be no fun if everyone on earth was like each other. No, I don't. I'd enjoy that but what I would enjoy is learning to accept the differences and similarities of those who aren’t like me.
That means even when agreeing to disagree loving, You have to learn to respect others views and rules made when in their place or space. One Day you may thank them for it.
We have to learn that this world is changing, we are facing a dangerously high level of disrespect and Intolerance between our families, our schools, and our neighborhoods. Our jobs, even in our religion. So what is needed is we have to find creative solutions in which there are strong views that can coexist peacefully.
And that we can learn this by how well we dialogue with our own family members is the beginning of this search for the want in having mutual respect and coexistence.
Well you can send all questions and concerns to evolvedtopics@gmail.com
Thank You For Listening In!
Music Credits and Acknowledges: Royalty Free Music ‘Conti Music ‘
Host: TIALONDA
This podcast is a positive one not intended to mislead or embarrass anyone. So please share the episodes provided having the same intentions when sharing. Bringing positivity or inspiring messages starts with you.
Thank you !
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Have you ever been in a situation where you disagreed about something and it just escalated into a huge argument? Yeah,I know I have been there but wouldn’t be nice if we could agree to disagree in a loving way. I know it’s hard to do when you're trying to get your point across, or when shouting at each other and no one is being heard. Sometimes it’s just darn out right difficult. Nobody Is agreeing to disagree in a loving way. It breaks my heart to see relationships have ended over it, and even loss of jobs because of it. If something doesn’t go as we want it to, we get mad and will do almost anything to get our outcome or even to hurt another person.
May even punish someone or persons close to them to get a point across. But where does that lead us? It doesn’t resolve the problem, it creates more. It would be nice if as much as we say we are adults. We should act like it right?Being an adult doesn’t mean you get your way all the time. Sometimes you just have to understand that, That's not how the world works. You have 60,70, years old who agree to disagree but do it in such a harsh way. It doesn’t have to be that way you can agree to disagree loving.
Well you're the expert, tell me how? No I am no expert but I can say as I’ve grown away from the relationships that I would scream and shout in. I had to sit aside and think why and how that relationship ended. Most of the time it was because I will admit I was too busy shouting and trying to be heard, and get my point across that I didn’t listen to the other person. So, what happened to the other person and I?We ended our relationship. It was my fault as well as the other person's fault as well but the relationship ended.
I figured if only we agreed to disagree loving, So what could I have done differently that I can do now in communicating.
Sitting down and having a calm and productive conversation.To Simply learn a little more about the problems and the depth of why you both hold such different viewpoints.Sometimes we can reduce the tension and set the tone when approaching the conversation. For instance communicating in a caring and respectful way. I know at first you may feel uncomfortabl because it’s never been a method used when communicating. But it would be awesome if we could learn to dialogue in a way that would last us a lifetime. So that when a disagreement happened. There still would be a mutual respect between us when doing so. Now that’s an adult for you!That means respecting each other's beliefs, their choices, and what they see fit within their lives. My habit is I am always trying to see that everyone is happy and live like a hermit. But in reality we are all different with different similarities. You won’t see things the way I would or believe how I believe. It would be no fun if everyone on earth was like each other. No, I don't. I'd enjoy that but what I would enjoy is learning to accept the differences and similarities of those who aren’t like me.
That means even when agreeing to disagree loving, You have to learn to respect others views and rules made when in their place or space. One Day you may thank them for it.
We have to learn that this world is changing, we are facing a dangerously high level of disrespect and Intolerance between our families, our schools, and our neighborhoods. Our jobs, even in our religion. So what is needed is we have to find creative solutions in which there are strong views that can coexist peacefully.
And that we can learn this by how well we dialogue with our own family members is the beginning of this search for the want in having mutual respect and coexistence.
Well you can send all questions and concerns to evolvedtopics@gmail.com
Thank You For Listening In!
Music Credits and Acknowledges: Royalty Free Music ‘Conti Music ‘
Host: TIALONDA
This podcast is a positive one not intended to mislead or embarrass anyone. So please share the episodes provided having the same intentions when sharing. Bringing positivity or inspiring messages starts with you.
Thank you !
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