Kuldrin's Krypt: A BDSM 101 Podcast
BDSM Dungeons-S01E38
Recorded January 21, 2018 / Published April 3rd, 2018
Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of experience to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com
On this episode of the Krypt we are going to talk about dungeons but first, I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.
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What are dungeons?
Dungeons are generally considered as any space with BDSM equipment, used as a play space. They can also be used for classes, meetings, or events. They can be either public, open to a particular community; or private, belonging to a certain person or persons.
How to find a dungeon in your area?
There are a few different ways to approach this. Google, is a great place to start if you live in a larger city. Many professional dungeons are listed this way.
You can also get to know people in your community and often will find your way to a public dungeon this way. And depending on what you’re looking for, some private dungeons as well.
If you can't seem to find the dungeon of your dreams you can also make your own.
Making your own
Private- To make your own private dungeon all you really need is space and imagination. You can build your own furnishings and really do anything you want to meet your needs.
Public- Just like the case of a private dungeon you need space, many who are choosing to open a public space will use a home, business space, or barn even. Any open space that can provide discretion and feed into fantasies will usually work. It’s also important to set up a set of house rules as the owner and host. Among these, you can decide what activities you’ll allow, tools you’ll have on hand, and any other pertinent details.
Soundproofing can help especially if the dungeon happens to be close to other businesses or residence. Whether you have a public or private space you can easily add soundproofing to nearly any space with installation, or by adding acoustic panels to the walls. You can also soundproof doors and windows using soundproofing rubber molding around the door. There are also tons of diy projects available to try.
Liabilities
Non-disclosure agreements are legal agreements which help to protect confidential information. I’ve gone to a few a hotel styled public dungeons in which I had to sign a non-disclosure at check-in, and it’s always made me feel safer to do so.
Insurances. Homeowners insurance is there to protect your property and keep an attorney on retainer should you find yourself being sued for injury on your property. Other insurances you should have whether you’re planning to host a public or private dungeon are fire, and water damage. These are worth it especially if you are going to have any form of fire play or water bondage.
Liabilities if something goes wrong, which it can no matter how cautious we are. We all have heard of someone trying to sue someone else because they were injured on that person’s property. These are cases of whether the property owner was liable or not, and can happen in any dungeon setting. However, in many cases, the owner is only actually liable if they have not given the property maintenance to prevent reasonable harm. You should do what you can to protect yourself by making it clear to anyone who comes into your space to play: any areas that may lead to harm, any risks, and make sure they understand how to use any equipment on hand.
A final note or two.
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