Enneagram Type Nine: The Peacemaker

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https://spiritualseek.online/the-enneagram-personality-mini-test/ ---------- Enneagram Type 9: The Peacemaker FAQ What are the defining characteristics of an Enneagram Type 9? Enneagram Type 9s, known as Peacemakers, are driven by a deep desire...
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Enneagram Type 9: The Peacemaker FAQ
What are the defining characteristics of an Enneagram Type 9?
Enneagram Type 9s, known as Peacemakers, are driven by a deep desire for inner and outer harmony. They are typically:
- Calm and agreeable: They have a soothing presence and excel at diffusing conflict.
- Receptive and trusting: They are open to others' perspectives and genuinely want to understand them.
- Complacent and conflict-avoidant: They may prioritize keeping the peace over addressing important issues.
- Stubborn and passive-aggressive: They resist being controlled and may express anger indirectly.
- Basic Fear: Loss and separation. They fear being too needy and pushing others away.
- Basic Desire: Inner stability and "peace of mind". They want to create a harmonious environment free from conflict.
- Key Motivations: Maintaining peace, avoiding tension, preserving the status quo, and resisting anything upsetting.
Type 9s have either a 1-wing or an 8-wing, influencing their personality:
- 9w1: The Dreamer: More introspective, idealistic, and principled, with a strong sense of right and wrong.
- 9w8: The Referee: More assertive, outgoing, and action-oriented, with a focus on justice and fairness.
- Healthy: Self-possessed, content, and deeply connected to themselves and others. They act as mediators, bringing people together and resolving conflicts.
- Average: Accommodating and self-effacing, they may go along with others' wishes to avoid conflict. They can become disengaged and complacent, neglecting their own needs.
- Unhealthy: Repressed, numb, and unable to cope with problems. They may dissociate from reality and become increasingly withdrawn and dysfunctional.
- Prioritize personal needs: Recognize and honor your own wants and desires instead of automatically deferring to others.
- Engage with emotions: Pay attention to your feelings, including anger and anxiety, instead of suppressing them.
- Embrace healthy conflict: Understand that disagreements are a natural part of relationships and can lead to deeper understanding.
- Develop assertiveness: Practice expressing your needs and opinions directly and respectfully.
- Challenge comfort zones: Step outside of routines and explore new experiences to foster personal growth.
- Create a peaceful and supportive atmosphere.
- Loyal, patient, and understanding partners.
- Skilled at mediating and resolving conflicts.
- Can be overly passive and avoid difficult conversations.
- May prioritize their partner's needs above their own.
- Prone to passive-aggressive behavior when feeling unheard.
- Encourage them to express their needs and desires.
- Practice active listening and create a safe space for open communication.
- Recognize their contributions and reassure them of their importance.
- Support their efforts towards self-care and personal growth.
- World Leaders: Queen Elizabeth II, Barack Obama, Abraham Lincoln
- Entertainers: Audrey Hepburn, Morgan Freeman, Woody Harrelson, Zooey Deschanel, Whoopi Goldberg
- Creatives: Walt Disney, Carl Jung, Joseph Campbell
- Fictional Characters: Dorothy Gale (The Wizard of Oz), Winnie-the-Pooh, Luke Skywalker (Star Wars)
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