Most people are basing their happiness on how they look physically, yet they don't understand how they see self depends on what's going on inside of them. Happiness, self-love, and peace comes from within. Nothing or no one can take away your negative feelings, insecurities, and other things you're experiencing, because a person thinks how they think, based on what's inside. People hold in negativity from their past traumas and other negative experiences, and those things forms the mindsets we have. That's why so many people live well into adulthood and old age, but they commit suicide, because they never let go of their past pains, when it's you whose held on to it forever. Many people suffer a lifetime of mental anguish, because they don't fix what's wrong inside. They go through life with the same negative mindsets. We see many people accomplish great things, but their suffering mentally from past pains. For many people, they truly think if they look better outside they will feel better, but in reality, they're thinking the wrong way. Fix the inside and I guarantee you will learn to love what you see in the mirror, flaws and all. Men and women, have lost their lives trying to change their appearances through plastic surgery, when their focus should of been on changing why they didn't love self. I've mentioned many times it takes the inside to work properly because it is what forms how we see and deal with the outside parts of ourselves. It is what forms our mindsets (past traumas, other negative experiences from childhood, etc.,negative environments, negative social circles, negative upbringings,negative people, etc.).