Episode 44 - Control your thoughts - Not your kids
Sep 27, 2020 ·
34m 7s
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One common challenge moms face today is dealing with kids. It gets frustrating when kids don’t listen to us and follow the rules we set. Our efforts to discipline them...
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One common challenge moms face today is dealing with kids. It gets frustrating when kids don’t listen to us and follow the rules we set. Our efforts to discipline them don’t work as we intend them to and we can’t figure what to do differently to get our kids to listen.
If you face this challenge, you are going to love this episode. In this episode I share how your current approach of discipling your kids is having the opposite effect than you desire. How the way you are raising your kids is setting them up to become successful but unhappy professionals whose happiness depends on external accomplishments.
We end up trying to control the kids but neither does this feel good to us, nor to the kids. I share some practical ways in which you can get kids to be disciplined without losing your peace of mind.
When we control kids too much, we limit their possibilities because of our limited thinking.
When we learn to segregate our emotions from what our kids do, we can teach them that their happiness doesn’t depend on external circumstances. They will learn to see life as a holistic experience for them to make their own choices and experience consequences of each of those experiences.
Kids don’t learn what we tell them, they learn what we live every-day. For teaching them this, we need to do the same ourselves. When you will learn to create your own happiness in every situation, your kids will automatically learn it too. That’s how smart they are !
If you want to learn this superpower, I can help you. Book time at bottom right corner of website www.mindtalesconsulting.com
Enjoy listening.
#children #happiness #control #parenting #raisingkids #workingmoms #controllingkids
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If you face this challenge, you are going to love this episode. In this episode I share how your current approach of discipling your kids is having the opposite effect than you desire. How the way you are raising your kids is setting them up to become successful but unhappy professionals whose happiness depends on external accomplishments.
We end up trying to control the kids but neither does this feel good to us, nor to the kids. I share some practical ways in which you can get kids to be disciplined without losing your peace of mind.
When we control kids too much, we limit their possibilities because of our limited thinking.
When we learn to segregate our emotions from what our kids do, we can teach them that their happiness doesn’t depend on external circumstances. They will learn to see life as a holistic experience for them to make their own choices and experience consequences of each of those experiences.
Kids don’t learn what we tell them, they learn what we live every-day. For teaching them this, we need to do the same ourselves. When you will learn to create your own happiness in every situation, your kids will automatically learn it too. That’s how smart they are !
If you want to learn this superpower, I can help you. Book time at bottom right corner of website www.mindtalesconsulting.com
Enjoy listening.
#children #happiness #control #parenting #raisingkids #workingmoms #controllingkids
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