Has your self-esteem taken a hit from too much dating drama? Are you starting to doubt yourself? Questioning your instincts or wondering if there’s something wrong with you? Here are some tips on how to gain (and maintain) your self-esteem.   Gaining and maintaining self-esteem during the ups and downs of modern dating can be exhausting. One minute you’re up in the hopes that you’ve met somebody, the next minute they reveal themselves to be false. Not to worry. There is a way to survive and thrive in modern dating. Here’s how:   1.     The Key to Staying Centered 2.     Discerning Your Stuff vs Their Stuff 3.     Creating a Positive Vision for the Future