A powerful conversation on loss, suppressing our feelings and freedom with Kathei McCoy, affectionately known as Coach Kathei, is a Minister, Author, Speaker and Life Coach, After grieving the painful murder of her only child, she is turning his tragic death into a movement called “Save our Sons” for Black Mothers Raising Black Sons. She is the author of the book, “To Mothers Raising Sons: How to Love Them to Life Instead of Death.” This book sheds light on the negative impacts on male children when raised by women who struggle with self-love and provides mothers with tools to foster the emotional health of their sons.Currently, she volunteers for Choose 180, an organization that is transforming systems, communities, and lives through the power of CHOICE. She also serves on the Survivors Advisory Board for Collective Justice, a Restorative Justice organization in Seattle that is building spaces for wellness and healing for people on all sides of harm.