When building character and the corresponding muscle groups--integrity, honor, kindness, patience, persistence, committment to truth, etc.-- you will encounter resistence.  All growth is a product of resistence.  This often happens in unexpected and unwanted ways.  Wilbur Wright is known for changing the world but we share a story of how the world changed him.  In fact, it appeared that the world turned on him in a cruel and undeserved way that derailed him from a promising future.... Or did it?  Did the very unfortunate events of his youth contribute to create a much better and qualified person to change the world of aviation and science than may have happened if he had not encountered these challenges.  Furthermore, his struggle and "setbacks" demonstrate the value of a "home gym".  He found strength and built muscles of character while being streched, fatiqued and broken down in the environment of his home and family -where those who most loved and cared for him could help him lift a heavy set of weights life dealt to him.  An excellent lesson for all of us who may be going through growing pains, training injuries, character rehabilitation or just becoming stronger, better people.