Flashbacks of holiday's past. Or would that be passed? Either way we're still searching for the what's in it for me victory. A new challenge this season. Start saying, "Don't make it about me." It will do amazing things to not only you but everyone around you. Don't make it about me. It takes the pressure of your personal circle. Too many people are so worried about having the perfect holiday. Stop. Don't make it about me. If things don't pay off for them then they're the instant host next year. It's time to start being nice to yourself. Don't make it about me.