In this episode of The Observatory, Bob Coleman and Wendy Wylde join the show to discuss how adversity can strengthen relationships, helping partners support each other and thrive. Bob and Wendy are a couple who have gone through many struggles in their lives. They now help each other grow and thrive by offering a third eye. They enable each other to see the things in the shadows. Hear why most people are uncomfortable with being vulnerable and the magic of intimate relationships with a feminine partner. They also share the effects of suppressing and repressing your true emotions and desires and ways to find the deepest healing in our partnerships.
 
Timestamps

[02:24] Bob and Wendy’s background information
[10:17] How Wendy and Bob first met
[12:00] The good thing about dancing retreats
[16:33] Why most people are uncomfortable with being vulnerable
[19:07] The powerful energy of desire
[25:47] The magic of intimate relationships with a feminine partner
[31:09] Bob’s healing journey from porn addiction
[41:00] The effects of suppressing and repressing your true emotions and desires
[47:05] The book: The Alabaster Girl
[52:25] Wendy’s journey from being masculine to uncovering her femininity
[01:03:54] The divinity of our sexuality
[01:06:03] Finding the deepest healing in our relationships
[01:10:59] The importance of following your intuition

Notable quotes:

• “There are many ways to get to where you want to go.”- Wendy Wylde [11:31]
• “The magic of being in an intimate relationship with a feminine partner who holds such divine goddess space is life-changing.” - Bob Coleman [25:20]
• “Growth needs space. It doesn’t need judgment or rigidity.” - Wendy Wylde [27:11]
• “When you start to become soft and are open to receive, you can drop things like judgment and defensiveness.” - Wendy Wylde [58:58]
• “When we are not in the space of fear, we are in the space of the divine and love because those are the two energies. - Scott [01:14:32]

Relevant links:

Book: The Alabaster Girl
Book: Return To Eros
Wendy Wylde LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/wendy-minks-16a7b810/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wendywokeup/
Bob Coleman LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bob-coleman-97481b1b8/

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