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Brad and Michaela Draper have what many people call "a unique relationship that others strive to be like". Though they feel their relationship is fairly normal, they also realize they...
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Brad and Michaela Draper have what many people call "a unique relationship that others strive to be like". Though they feel their relationship is fairly normal, they also realize they are different from most other relationships. They found each on the dance floor of a bar, were married 9 months later, were told they were making a massive mistake... here they are 10 years later with two little rug rats. Brad and Michaela are beyond excited to share some of the nuggets they have picked up along the way while curating what many would say is the ultimate power couple. Join them on this journey as they relay a variety of topics to help you create the type relationship you strive for most.
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14 MAY 2025 · Dancing in the Rain: Finding Joy in Imperfect Relationships
Ever wondered how successful couples navigate the messy reality of everyday life? Join the Drapers as they unveil their secret to building a thriving relationship - embracing imperfection with grace and humor.
In this candid episode, Brad and Michaela tackle real-life challenges, from grocery shopping mishaps to conflicting Mother's Day expectations. They share how treating their relationship like a sport that requires constant practice has transformed their marriage. Through entertaining anecdotes about morning routines and holiday celebrations, they demonstrate how communication and adaptability are key to navigating relationship expectations.
The couple emphasizes that perfect moments are often unrealistic, and true connection comes from accepting and working with life's imperfections. Their refreshing approach shows that sometimes the best memories come from "dancing in the rain" when plans don't go as expected.
Ready to transform your relationship perspective?
Tune in to this episode of "Choosing Us" to discover how embracing imperfection might be the perfect solution for your relationship.
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7 MAY 2025 · **Did you know that many women in long-term relationships have never experienced an orgasm?** This eye-opening episode of "Choosing Us" with the Drapers tackles the often-overlooked topic of female pleasure and sexual wellness in relationships.
Michaela and Brad dive deep into:
- - The surprising statistics about women's orgasms
- - The importance of open communication about sexual needs
- - Understanding female anatomy and pleasure
- - Breaking taboos around intimacy discussions
- - The role of sexual health in maintaining strong relationships
The hosts emphasize that healthy intimacy distinguishes thriving partnerships from mere cohabitation. Through candid conversation, they explore how couples can enhance their connection through better understanding, communication, and exploration of mutual desires.
This episode provides practical insights for:
- - Having honest conversations about pleasure
- - Understanding personal needs and preferences
- - Supporting partners in their journey to sexual wellness
- - Breaking free from societal taboos
Ready to transform your relationship through better understanding of intimacy? Listen to this enlightening episode that's changing the conversation around female pleasure and partnership dynamics.
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30 APR 2025 · Love as a Daily Choice: Beyond Just Feelings
Discover how spontaneous adventures and intentional choices can transform your relationship from mundane to magnificent! In this compelling episode of "Choosing Us," Brad and Michaela reveal how treating love as a daily commitment rather than just a feeling can prevent couples from becoming mere roommates. They share their personal experience of a 24-hour getaway to St. George, proving that even brief escapes can reignite relationship sparks.
The hosts dive deep into the power of shared experiences - from mountain biking to snorkeling with stingrays - and how these adventures strengthen their bond. They emphasize that self-care isn't selfish; it's essential for showing up better for your partner. Through their journey of trying new activities like pottery and photography, they demonstrate how stepping out of comfort zones together leads to relationship growth.
Ready to transform your relationship from routine to extraordinary? Listen to this episode to learn practical ways to choose your partner daily, create meaningful experiences, and keep the romance alive in your relationship. Your next relationship breakthrough might be just one adventure away!
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23 APR 2025 · When Life Hits Hard: The Power of True Partnership
Ever wondered what makes a relationship truly resilient? Dive into this heartfelt episode where Michaela and Brad unpack the essence of genuine partnership through their own experiences. When Michaela fell ill, Brad's seamless handling of everything from school runs to household chores became a powerful testament to real teamwork in action.
The episode explores:
- - Why stepping up during tough times matters
- - How daily responsibilities shift based on circumstances
- - The danger of relationship complacency
- - The impact of small acts of support
- - The role of gratitude in strengthening bonds
Brad humorously describes Michaela as their home's COO, while emphasizing how shared responsibilities and proactive support keep their partnership strong. They discuss practical tips for couples, including:
- - Using technology for task management
- - Maintaining accountability
- - Communicating effectively during challenges
- - Recognizing and appreciating each other's contributions
Ready to transform your relationship through everyday acts of partnership? Listen to this episode for authentic insights and actionable advice on building a stronger, more supportive bond with your partner.
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16 APR 2025 · Setting Boundaries: The Key to Stronger Relationships
Ever wonder why some relationships thrive while others struggle? The Drapers dive deep into the transformative power of setting healthy boundaries in relationships, work, and social media. Through personal stories and practical wisdom, they reveal how establishing clear boundaries has strengthened their own partnership and enhanced their family life.
Key highlights:
- - The importance of having honest, though sometimes difficult, boundary conversations
- - Using "we" language instead of "you" or "I" to foster collaboration
- - Creating boundaries around technology use and attention
- - Viewing boundary-setting as an opportunity for growth rather than confrontation
- - Applying boundary principles to all relationships, including business partnerships
The Drapers emphasize that successful relationships aren't built on individual efforts but on shared commitment and mutual respect. They demonstrate how setting and maintaining boundaries with care can transform challenging situations into opportunities for deeper connection.
Ready to revolutionize your relationships through better boundaries? Listen to this episode to discover practical strategies for creating stronger, more respectful connections with the people who matter most in your life.
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9 APR 2025 · Finding Joy Through Service and Play in Relationships
Discover how a couple transformed their relationship by combining the power of playful connection and meaningful service - from jamming to Linkin Park with their kids to teaching in prisons. Michaela and Brad Draper share their inspiring journey of building an extraordinary relationship through simple yet profound practices.
In this heartwarming episode, they reveal:
- - How incorporating play strengthens relationships
- - Ways to serve together that create deeper bonds
- - The unexpected opportunities that arise from serving others
- - Their transformative experience volunteering in prisons
- - Simple strategies for finding joy in everyday moments
The Drapers demonstrate that the strongest relationships are built on a foundation of shared experiences, whether through fun activities or community service. Their story shows that happiness isn't something to search for - it's a choice we make daily through our actions and focus.
Ready to transform your relationships through the power of play and service? Tune in to this episode of "Choosing Us" for practical insights and inspiring stories that will help you create deeper connections with your loved ones.
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2 APR 2025 · Breaking Down Communication Barriers: From Taboo Topics to Deep Connection
Dive into a powerful discussion about shattering communication barriers and creating meaningful connections through radical honesty. This episode explores how embracing uncomfortable conversations - from menstruation to relationship dynamics - can transform our personal relationships and family dynamics.
Learn how the speakers navigated their own journey from growing up in households where certain topics were taboo, to creating open dialogues with their children and partners. Their refreshing approach shows how normalizing discussions about bodies, emotions, and personal experiences can build stronger, more authentic relationships.
The conversation offers practical insights on:
- - Creating safe spaces for difficult conversations
- - Teaching children about body awareness
- - Building trust through vulnerability
- - Handling sensitive topics with grace
- - Breaking generational communication barriers
Whether you're a parent looking to have better conversations with your kids, or someone seeking deeper connections in your relationships, this episode provides valuable strategies for more authentic communication.
Ready to transform your approach to difficult conversations? Listen now to discover how radical honesty can revolutionize your relationships.
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26 MAR 2025 · Finding Faith Together: A Journey of Individual Spiritual Growth in Marriage
Discover how the Drapers transformed their marriage by embracing individual spiritual journeys while maintaining a united front. In this powerful episode, they reveal the secret to building a faith-based relationship that doesn't compromise personal growth or force beliefs on one another.
The couple shares their unique approach to spirituality, where each partner maintains their own relationship with God while supporting their spouse's journey. Their story highlights how allowing space for individual spiritual exploration ultimately strengthened their marriage and created a more authentic connection with their faith.
Key insights include:
- - Moving beyond obligatory religious practices
- - Supporting each other's personal spiritual pace
- - Navigating faith discussions with children
- - Building a foundation of mutual respect for beliefs
- - Balancing individual and shared spiritual experiences
Whether you're newly married, raising children, or seeking to deepen your spiritual connection as a couple, this episode offers valuable wisdom for nurturing both faith and partnership.
Ready to transform your approach to faith and marriage? Listen now to discover how individual spiritual journeys can lead to a stronger union.
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19 MAR 2025 · Discover the Power of Small Moments in Building Lasting Love
Want to keep your relationship thriving in today's fast-paced world? Join Michaela and Brad Draper as they reveal how simple, intentional moments can transform your connection with your partner. From longer hugs to surprise love notes, learn practical strategies for maintaining intimacy despite busy schedules.
The Drapers share their personal experiences and warn against the dangerous "we'll do it later" mindset that can slowly erode relationships. They emphasize how skipping even one date night can impact their bond, highlighting the importance of consistent investment in your partnership.
Key takeaways include:
- - Scheduling regular date nights
- - Creating brief but meaningful moments of connection
- - Finding ways to play and serve together
- - Leaving thoughtful notes for your partner
- - Making time for intentional conversations
Whether you're navigating a hectic season or looking to deepen your relationship, this episode offers actionable insights for couples at any stage.
Ready to transform your relationship through small, powerful changes? Tune in now to learn how these simple practices can help you build a stronger, more connected partnership.
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12 MAR 2025 · Breaking Free from Social Media's Grip on Relationships
Discover how a couple's contrasting approaches to social media - from complete detox to strategic usage - revealed surprising insights about modern relationships. Brad and Michaela Draper candidly explore how digital distractions affect genuine connection and share their journey to finding balance in an increasingly connected world.
The episode challenges popular misconceptions about "perfect" relationships portrayed in media and pornography, offering refreshing perspectives on embracing imperfect moments. Through personal anecdotes, including a revealing Disneyland experience, the Drapers demonstrate how external expectations can derail authentic family experiences.
Key takeaways:
- - The impact of social media detox on productivity and presence
- - Breaking free from unrealistic relationship standards
- - Creating authentic experiences versus chasing idealized moments
- - Managing expectations in family activities
- - Building a relationship that works for you, not social media
Ready to transform your perspective on modern relationships and social media's influence? Tune in to this eye-opening conversation about finding genuine connection in a digital age.Â
Your perfect relationship isn't on Instagram - it's waiting to be built by you.
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Brad and Michaela Draper have what many people call "a unique relationship that others strive to be like". Though they feel their relationship is fairly normal, they also realize they...
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Brad and Michaela Draper have what many people call "a unique relationship that others strive to be like". Though they feel their relationship is fairly normal, they also realize they are different from most other relationships. They found each on the dance floor of a bar, were married 9 months later, were told they were making a massive mistake... here they are 10 years later with two little rug rats. Brad and Michaela are beyond excited to share some of the nuggets they have picked up along the way while curating what many would say is the ultimate power couple. Join them on this journey as they relay a variety of topics to help you create the type relationship you strive for most.
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| Author | Brad Draper |
| Organization | Brad Draper |
| Categories | Self-Improvement |
| Website | - |
| brad@brad-draper.com |
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