22 JUN 2024 · Most people never had true love in the first place, but they continued on with their relationships, knowing something is/was wrong. Then, they wonder why they've grown apart. It's because you never were together in the way it takes for any healthy relationship to last. You never had a solid foundation. Being together for years doesn't mean the relationship is growing. People get comfortable and complacent out of insecurities to include fear and because of it, they stay in relationships they no longer want with no love, intimacy, communication, affection, etc. Real love lasts. Relationships with true love grows and flourishes as they get older, they don't grow apart. Most people start out chasing to satisfy their lust in one way or another (desires for sex, money, possessions, love, etc), and because of it the majority of the relationships all around the world are unhealthy..

18 JUN 2024 · Many people lead unhappy and unhealthy lives, because of the anger they choose to hold on to, as if there's a benefit to holding on to it. By choosing to hold on, it means you aren't allowing yourself to let it go. Many people are walking time bombs, when they don't have to be. They're comfortable with the old familiar, despite the trouble it brings into their lives. Uncontrolled anger is ugly and it has cost people their freedom and/or their lives. When you can't control your anger it means you're controlled by your anger, because it is what you've given power to in your life. Angry people destroy their own lives.

15 JUN 2024 · I believe in a strong attraction. In a true connection, you should have a physical attraction, but it should mostly be a mental connection, that can lead to love. True love, takes real love, and getting to know one another, and a building a strong / solid foundation. If it's based solely on physical (looks, sex) or possessions (money, titles, positions, things, children, etc.), it more than likely, won't be a happy relationship. Most people are looking for happiness through love (someone) and through things, only to find it doesn't make them happy. Many people are in relationships thinking it's love, when it's not love at all.

11 JUN 2024 · Negativity can lead to disaster and self destruction. When you give power to your thoughts, you can lose control. Many people open themselves up to the darkness and it eventually engulfs them. It's very sad, that people don't try to change. Instead, they keep fueling their negative thoughts, succumb, and then are taken by the negativity. It's NOT love at all, in no way! These people have no clue what love is, and when they lose focus, they lose control and get to that point of no return. It's all immaturity, negative, and senseless.

4 JUN 2024 · Self-inflicted because most people set themselves up. People hold on to negativity and do not embrace positive change. Most people tend to waddle in their woes, instead of trying to heal and let go of them. It's all self-inflicted because people are prisoners to their own mindsets. You give power to people and things only to end up hurt. People are seeking, running, and chasing after things or people, only to end up hurt by their own doings. Meaning, you set yourself up for the let down, headaches, and heartaches. It's all in the mindset. Our mindsets are formed from trauma or bad experiences and instead of allowing self to heal, people go through life dragging all of their past pains, which continues to affect how they think, feel, and act. You can smile and fake your way through your pain, but is sure won't make it go away. Change is only accomplished by you! Forgive, love yourself, and move on.

1 JUN 2024 · We get red flags and signs all of the time. In relationships, when you ignore or deny the red flags and signs that are presented, you'll undoubtedly suffer the consequences. People must learn to look beyond their hearts, wants, desires, and feelings, to what is in their faces. I don't care how you think you want someone, it doesn't mean they are any good for you! Red flags and signs don't ever lie!

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28 MAY 2024 · They allowed you to love them knowing they didn't love you. Their agenda is definitely different than yours. Unfortuantely, that's on you! These are relationships where you have created the monster in your life. If the person you love doesn't love you, that's only a small portion of the problems you will face. Most people love solely based on self. Meaning, how you feel about the other person, while totally disregarding or denying the truth. Most people know the relationship is one-sided but they think they can make the other person love them. Many people find themselves in unhealthy and unhappy relationships because they went into them for the wrong reasons, the wrong way, and with the wrong person. If they don't love you, why would you even want to force it? You'll get exactly what you signed up for, allowed, and accepted! Guaranteed!!!

25 MAY 2024 · There are many people walking around as the living dead. They are on auto pilot and merely existing. They give power to their unresolved inner issues that has affected them mentally. Sadly, most people don't try to become better. Many people have gone through real trauma or bad situations, while some other people have created their own issues from their own lies, they now believe. When you hinder your own growth, it hinders you mind, body, and soul. You're driving yourself crazy unnecessarily, when you deserve better for yourself. As an adult, any time you believe something that isn't true to a point of self sabotage, it is self inflicted. As an adult, if you're holding on to past pain, it is now self inflicted, because you willfully choose to hold on to it, versus dealing with it and letting it go, You can literally and some people already have, driven themselves to a point of mental health issues and/or mental breakdown.

21 MAY 2024 · You do NOT love yourself if who you've allowed someone in your life who isn't enhancing your life. Never forget that it is you, who teach your significant other and others in general, how to treat you, How you love yourself always shows. Most people actually think they love self, when in fact they don't.  If you don't love yourself, you'll never recognize true love. Although it exists, most people have never experienced it.