On this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela have very special guests with them, Brad and Angel Brockbank. They go down the very difficult topic path of infertility and how they grew closer together. Brad and Angel speak about they struggles and trials of growth while striving to grow their very own family. Angel goes in depth of her processing and personal advancement as she struggled with conceiving. Further, Brad shares the male side of infertility and how to overcome. For those struggling with infertility, this is worth listening to. If you know someone struggling, it is worth sharing. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!

Brad's ig handle: @brockbank
Angel's ig handle: @angelbrockbank

As requested from Brad Brockbank, below is the comments shared from a seminar:

"How To Take Care of Your Wife".
(These are my personal notes and they have served me VERY well since I learned them).
 
#1 You need to drop 3 Appreciation Bombs Each Week (From outta nowhere) In those messages send the message that I care about you and I adore you.
#2 Don't ignoring her feelings. (You have to let her know that the way she feels about something is important, even if she is wrong)
#3 Don't interrupt her to judge or correct what she is saying. (Also don't interrupt her to give her the solution to her problem... That is not why she is telling you)
#4 Stop putting your interest or friends first. This makes her feel second rate, and will NOT help your relationship. (Do the opposite and I guarantee very positive results.)
I#5 Stop saying you shouldn't be so upset.
#6 Stop belittling her views. (go back and see #2)
 
Affection is a powerful motivator for women and helps to soften their heart when they receive it.
 
#7 Do- be attentive to show you care.
#8 Do- listen quietly to understand her feelings.
#9 Do- adore her by putting her needs first.
#10 Do- validate her and make her know that her feelings are okay.
#11 Do- assure her that her feelings make sense.
 
A wife will give more if she feels special, adored, and listened to than rescued or provided for; she desires more loving attention and affection than helpful problem solving
 
Apply these principles constructed upon a foundation of mutual trust and love and I promise a stronger healthier marriage. Feel free to share with others

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