It’s week 3 and we’ve finally formulated a theory for Jenn’s season! Let’s get into it.

In this Bachelorette 2024 Episode 3 recap, the conflict hasn’t stopped and Thomas N and Sam M are continuing to perpetuate a culture of pettiness and negativity. We chat through their (many) red flags obsessing over the other men in the house, putting down Sam N, and focusing on anything other than Jenn. We chat about our complicated feelings liking Devin (with some trepidation) and how he may have the only genuine connection with Jenn. We talk about our excitement seeing Jenn making sense of her dating story, finding her voice, cutting off the toxic men in the show, and refining her dating picker—all in real time.

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