So... I the guy.. Was lying on the bed last night. Eyes closed but unable to sleep. I got grumpy a few days ago, and last night i thought about why i did that.

I think i was grumpy as a self defence mechanism to prevent my partner's mood from dropping into the grumpy zone..

Do it first before she does it.

But that's really mean of me. Or thats what i thought. So after a long haitus, i asked if we could talk it out.. Just like how we did on Compatibility Complimentary. And this is the episode fot it.

And hence we find out what really goes on in each others minds and what we think about being grumpy.

"I'm grumpy, so that you wont be grumpy" (its sooo mean!) vs "I'll be happy, so that you can be happy,.. Together"

Notes side not in recording:
1. On talking to each other.

Communication betwen partners is crucial to the relationship (duh uh).
But we dont need to expect to have super deep philosophical debates about life with each other on a dsily basis (or even at all). That category of corespondance can be filled with friends with the conspiracy theories...

But it is one of the utmost importance that partners can talk to each other about the things that... They wouldn't normally talk to anyone else. Not their best friends, parents, or strangers. They should feel so.. Open enough, with trust and confidence that they can confide in the one they sleep beside, to hear and listen out anything and everything on their mind... And it is all safe.

A safe place.

2. On babies.
So yup we became parents.
Life has.. drastically changed.. I feel mostly for the better. Fundamentally.. We try to keep it the same. Build on that solid Rock.

Our schedules have been affected. Sports. Social. Work.

Now it revovles around feeding, nappy changes, naps, sleep, sleepless nights.. And play.

Its wonderful.

Nothing changes life like having a kid.

Till next time.
Stay compatibly complementary to each other!