gentlemen what's going on....imaging penny wise from the movie
it.... is standing in a dark alley in the middle of a pitch black night

red balloon just floating in the breeze ....and he's got this shit eating grin

are you going to keep stepping and be about your business....or are you
going to foolishly play games with something that will eat your ass alive

RED FLAGS and not only in dating but for life in general are there for a very
specific reason....

they are the banners over a hazardous situation....,
a signpost that says////AVOID

and I get it were men,,,our heartbeat sometimes pounds to the tune of danger.

our nature is to live on the edge to push the boundaries....to conquer the conquests

but theres a difference, a huge difference between being courageoulsy dangerous
and ignorantly stupid...

how many times has thinking with the dick,,,,made fools out of men
 twisting them into a heap of regret

so the idea here is to exchange temporary lust for a lasting return

i have no desire to invest my time and resources on anything that's not gonna yield a high
return

men have spent hours on porn, cheap easy women, EXPENSIVE HARD women,this
that ahhh

blatanly put we have wasted countless fucking hours because we avoided the bigs ass waving red flag

She has three kids under the age of four.....she smokes more weed than she can afford
and her JOB........her damn job .......is a social media influencer......

"BUT she looks so good in her assless chaps pics that she's sellin to every tom dick and harry simp
out there

get a grip man....grab hold of reality and quit seeing things the way you WANT them to be
and start recognizing them for what they are

and when we start noticing the red flags and the little shades of gray in our lives
and those people around us....

that's when we can start carving away at the fat and see red flashing flags for what they offer

we truly become that man with a chisel in hand....

you don't sculpt a badass life with a 1,000 red flags

instead you take an unblemished stone and get to work....

and here's the deal that many an impatient man will never come to appreciate

a good life is not one ready made...its like the sculptor with the stone

one man only sees an ugly rock....he doesn't have the insight or patience
to see what he can make out of the tough exterior

he's too damn impatient to see what lies within that hunk of marble

red flags are alluring, that's why we throw out any rational thought and
let the blood in our penis guide us....

but if we could ever start walking through life with a noticing eye...

a pause in our step....with a curious examination....

thats when red flags become our ally instead of our nemesis

life is about decisions....your life is a collection of decisions made or decisions not made

to live courageously dangerous and take needed risks is mans duty...thats how we
survive and progress

but to ignorantly walk into a landmine that has flashing warning signs over it
is not courageous....its not even dangerous

ITS PLAIN FUCKING stupoid

love and respect gentlemen
that penny wise is a scary mother fucker
you will hear from me next episode