This week we’re joined by Tre from Primary Colors Podcast, a collab that has been long in the making. We kick off the episode with ice breakers and posed the question of “does a man lie to the woman he loves, or is he honest?” This leads us into the conversation of whether or not men and women can be completely honest with each other.

Whether it be about our physical appearance, hygiene, or sexual performance, Tre does not think men can completely be honest with women. However, he says men can make suggestions, as those are more accepted by women. When it comes to sexual performance, to avoid hurting anyone and having them in their head, we all agree that delivery is most important when being honest. You know the old saying, “it’s not what you say, but how you say it,” still stands true.

We then explore how personal insecurities can affect our relationships and our partners being honest with us. We share some of our insecurities and how they’ve affected us throughout the years. When insecurities that haven’t been embraced are triggered, it can cause us hurt, anger, and jealousy, thus prompting conflict in our relationships. We should all learn to embrace and accept our insecurities, as there is strength and power in this.

Bri kicks off our “All is fair in love and war” segment where we address the topic of plastic surgery and if women are doing it for themselves or for the male gaze. Tre gives his thoughts on this and his preference of wanting his woman to embrace what she has. We also explore if one can be happy on their relationship and still cheat, and if sex an obligation in a relationship.

Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

Be sure to check our more of Tre’s content on his podcast, Primary Colors Podcast on YouTube and all listening platforms. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast.